We human beings are a funny lot. Give us a reason, any flimsy reason, and we want to throw a party. Once the reason has been established, the party giver follows a very standard recipe. Lashings of delicious fat and sugar-laden food, liberal doses of alcohol (of course depending on the age of the partygoers) to aid and abet party dynamics and some age-appropriate music to supply background noise and encourage aforementioned partygoers to bust a move on the dance floor.
Nicky and I are having a party this week to celebrate a year since our inaugural education course and also, the launch of our advisory business, wiseadvisory. It got me thinking about celebrations, why we have them and what they represent. I came to the conclusion that they fall into two categories. The first category commemorates the past, and the second, the promise of the future. In the first I would put birthdays, anniversaries and graduations and in the second, christenings, weddings, divorce parties and of course, launch parties.
With the fast approaching end of financial year (another great reason for many in the financial services industry to throw a bash) I decided we should all, in our own way, use this time to look back at how far we have come and look forward to what the next year holds.
It sometimes feels, for me, as if I am never making any headway into what I need to do or accomplish, my inbox and to-do list are always full and I spend my life spinning my wheels and not getting to where I want to be. Yet, when I think back to what I have done over the past year I do shake my head in wonder and give myself a metaphorical pat on the back at what I have manifested through my personal efforts. With that done and the accompanying sense of satisfaction still glowing, I can then turn my head to where I would like to be when June 2012 rolls around.
We need to give ourselves permission to rejoice in what we have done so we gain a sense of pride and self-respect. Why? Because this is what drives us to keep going. At a financial level (and yes, here is the inevitable segue to our finances) we can be very pleased with ourselves when we pay off our mortgage or credit card balance, cheer ourselves on when we reach a savings goal and be delighted about our ability to keep to our budget. They don’t need to be major achievements – changing behaviour is a hard won battle – but take the time to appreciate what you have done to improve the management of your finances. It makes the planning for next year that much easier.
On that note, I am off to the bottle shop to pick up the champagne for friends, family and clients to enjoy at our small celebration of the wisewomen journey. We’ll be back online in a couple of weeks after the winter break... Happy holidays!
